Now that I’m awake and slightly pissed off because my cat woke me up way too fucking early, let’s dissect this post that Ace sent my way. Yeah, Ace wrote a whole huge fucking pityfest and fucked up AGAIN in trying to keep himself anonymous. (I’m starting to think no one exists in this besides Ace and like one other person?) And then sent it to my fucking inbox so I could see just how much of a tool he’s been.
Sadly somebody was recently forced to leave Tumblr due to past relations with a genderflake known as Estioarem.
First of all, fuck you for trying to make people with a gender outside of the realm of what you understand feel bad for what they feel. Seriously fuck you. No one fucking forced you to leave tumblr; you fucking left because you kept sending shitty anonymous messages trying to get pity and failed miserably.
It seems that most people are unable to handle the truth. There is a simple explaination for what happened.
Allow me to explain, as I have studied this case extensively.
The simple explanation is that you are a huge piece of shit who feels the need to drag total fucking random strangers like me and Eevee and countless others into this (I’ve heard that like fucking half a dozen other people I know got similar messages back when this first started). What the fuck is wrong with you. Also please note, Ace is about to fucking misgender Estioarem the entire time, who goes by they/them. Please take note of that as this piece of shit talks.
Estioarem (One of her more popular blogs is EstioStuff) viciously wrote a post on her blog falsely claiming abuse at the hands of her former partner, AceOfClubs. She flew off the handle after being told that the relationship would not work out due to a very important and reasonable situation (She is asexual, so she claims. There is plenty of evidence to the contrary on many of her blogs. Moving on.) the sex was not satisfactory.
Hey. Hey. Fuck you with a giant fucking spiked iron rod. How fucking DARE you claim someone doesn’t know their own sexuality, or that you fucking know it better. Someone can have sex and be asexual. Someone can have sex a shitton of times, have babies, look at porn, and be asexual. Someone can do sexual things and be asexual.
I can’t fucking imagine why they would be upset that a person would only want to be with them for sex. There are a lot of successful relationships out there where sex is not important at all, but the fucking bond between the partners is what matters. There are also plenty of relationships where people are together, but the sexual partner gets sex on the side to fill any desires they have that way. That stuff can work out in many different ways.
Now, this is a touchy subject. I won’t get into a debate about it. It should be common sense that sex is an important part of most healthy relationships. Most people need it to feel close and happy with their significant other.
It’s not common sense because this is absolute horse shit. People can share an incredible fucking bond and never have had sex with each other. People do this all the fucking time: it’s called having close family or close friends. Can you be in a romantic relationship with someone and still not have sex? Abso-fucking-lutely, and to claim otherwise basically erases a SHITTON of experiences out there simply because YOU do not feel that way. You are ERASING asexuality simply because you were upset that they felt that way. That is disgusting. You are disgusting, Ace. There is no doubt that sex is apparently an important part for you, but to make it out like there is something WRONG with someone for their (lack of) sexuality is fucking gross and I hope you realize how disgusting you are for doing that.
Estioarem is a classic gendeflake. Meaning that she beleives she is above gender. She demands to be called “gender neutral” pronouns only, and she attacks any and everyone who does not bow to her tyranny on the subject.
Fuck you. Fuck you for trying to come up with shitty derogatory terms to make fun of gender and gender dysphoria simply because you resent that someone didn’t want to sleep with you. You are trash. How fucking dare you have the audacity to talk about how much they were lying about the abuse suffered at your hands when here we have you abusing them by refusing to respect their sexuality or gender, right in plain sight. You are human trash.
The fact of the matter is that there are two human genders. Anybody whom thinks they can flaunt tacked-on labels to appear all the more more special than others, purely for attention may I add, needs to be stopped. It’s a blatant slap in the face for anyone with true gender dysphoria.
No. You clearly do not actually understand dysphoria, nor do you understand that someone doesn’t even have to fucking feel wrong about their body to not fit the gender they want to present as or be seen as or referred to as. Gender is fucking complex. There is not a binary for this. In a previous ask, you actually fucking referred to “well its a little different for herms” but did you even know “herm” is a fucking slur when used against people who are intersex? Like, fuck you. Of course you didn’t. Because you don’t bother to actually read about this, or talk to any of the fucking thousands of people who feel this way - except Estioarem and me who you approached to say “by the way your gender identities are totally wrong because I said so” and then got So Surprised when we both said fuck you.
Have you ever considered that, oh I don’t know, people want to just live normally and not have it seen as an attention stunt? That they might just want to be referred to as whatever they want without worrying about how people are going to send them shitty fucking anons erasing their identity for no fucking reason? Fuck you.
I can understand that some people don’t yet know which gender they identify as, or they sometimes identify more with either gender, so they are termed “gender fluid.” That is acceptable and I beleive those people should be encouraged and supported on their jounrey to find which gender they want to transition into permanently. They will feel best once they can bring their true selves to life and be supported and accepted for the gender they are, and making that transition is so important and often overlooked.
"That is acceptable”? Who the fuck fucking crowned you Gender Acceptable Police? You are not the fucking king of who can identify as what gender, you fucking shitlock. “I believe people should be able to find their REAL gender which is of course only one of two genders that naturally exist in the natural world” hey fucker guess what gender is all fucking made up to begin with, and things people find comfort in are all often made up. And here you are, doing your best to pretend you actually give a shit about trans people or people figuring their gender identity out while refusing to acknowledge a fucking HUGE slice of people that DO NOT FIT IN THE BINARY. Simply because YOU do not deem it acceptable, and you think the best fucking solution is to approach people, tell them what they think about themselves and how they feel is wrong, and then make a huge post victimizing yourself.
Estioarem’s unfortunate partner at the time, was only trying to help Estioarem to deal with her confusion about her gender. This sent Estioarem into a hissy fit and she used it against her partner once the relationship ended.
Hey you know what? I’d definitely use your abuse against you if I ended a relationship with you, too. Actually I’d use your abuse against you, anyway. Like I’m doing right now. As you misgender them in the same fucking sentence as proclaiming your attempt at erasing their identity, which is abuse. Fuck you. Fuck you to death.
She gathered other genderflakes on the internet who of which she already knew, and proceeded to spread false information about Katestrife, Celestiallatte, and AceOfClubs. When confronted about this harassment, she denied it completely. She is very good at covering her tracks and having the appearance of everybody’s favourite angel.
Oh yes I’m sure this person fucking went out of their way to send any fucking harassment, I mean it’s totally been Estioarem who’s been sending me and Eevee shitty asks threatening us for weeks, right?
Oh wait, no, that was you and your friends, Ace.
She falsely spread the rumour that AceOfClubs stole the art style of StickFigureQueen’s, and that KateStrife and CelestialLatte stole her art. Once people got fed up with her and started reporting her for her transgressions, she got scared and started ptting up defenses and calling to others to back her.
Blah blah who fucking cares. More stupid petty shit I’m sure absolutely all of 3 people give a flying fuck about.
AceOfClubs rightfully saw through this ruse, and upon merely questioning the events on HER blog, SHE was viciously atacked not only by Estioarem, but by someone just as aggressive by the name of Kaptainwow.
Unable to do much else, AceOfClubs let this go graciously and moved on. Any decent person would. Estioarem on teh other hand, refused to do so. She continued to spread lies about AceOfClubs, and KateStrife. she set up a livestream account where she has been said to have spoken ill of both of them, and several people reported having been the receivers of the lies aswell.
Ah yes I’m sure that Estioarem is the one who has been spreading lies, just like how they lied about the abuse suffered at your hands.
Oh wait, that wasn’t a lie.
Soon all of tumblr seemed to be in on this, joining the bandwagon and attacking AceOfClubs. The result has been AceOfClubs forced to leave Tumblr sadly, removing all of their atwork with them. It will be sorely missed.
*Ace sheds a single tear for all the artwork taken down, the only person in existence to miss the artwork*
The other people involved with the attack on AceOfClubs were in most part Purplekecleon and LExyEevee, whom joined sides with Estioarem and planned attack after attack. Purplekecleon, coincidentally, is also a passive aggressive genderflake.
I would absolutely love to see any of my interactions with Estioarem. I’m pretty sure I have never once spoken to this person in my entire fucking life. I’d also LOVE to see what attacks I planned on you. I feel a little ripped off that I didn’t even get to actually attack you, and yet here’s a claim that I did. Does this mean I can attack you now? Do I get a free pass to do it since you’re so insistent that it actually happened? (I love how you never actually link to anything, btw. It makes it like a thousand times funnier. Shouldn’t you be able to easily compile evidence of my misdeeds? Please do so, should you conjure any up. I’d love to see.)
Upon trying got discuss with Purplekecleon in a civilized manner, albeit with a frustrated tone, about the reason behind gender special snowflakes being simply not possible or plausible, she acted much the same as Estioarem, flying off the handle. A miserable AceOfClubs then accidentally sent an ask without my anon, and was instantly condemned to the tumblr wall of shame for good. Merely for trying to gain acceptance and understanding.
"I tried to explain to PK that gender neutral didn’t exist because I said so. For some reason PK got really mad that I was saying the way they identified didn’t exist simply because I decreed it not to exist."
Also note this part, “A miserable AceOfClubs then accidentally sent an ask without my anon, and was instantly condemned to the tumblr wall of shame for good.”
This is how I know it’s ace. “Ace then accidentally sent an ask without my anon.” Ace forgot to send an ask as anon earlier right after he had sent some really gross ones my way about gender binary and shit. Is it any fucking surprise that Ace was behind all the Ace-pitying asks me and Eevee got all along???
This is indeed a truly troubling tale. Hopefully one day the truth will be known.
It doesn’t have to be this way. Don’t let passive aggressive genderflakes get what they want. Support people with true gender dysphoria.
That day is today. The truth is finally known by way of my hand.
Don’t support abusive shitwads who are mad that their partner left them for not supporting their gender or sexuality.